Dating a cheerleader
“For less attractive individuals, if you are with a group of friends who are more attractive than you, you can take advantage of the ‘assimilation effect’ which basically shows that you become associated with the more attractive group and tend to be perceived as more attractive yourself.”This effect goes by a different, more eye-roll inducing, name in a 2013 study in In this paper, researchers Drew Walker and Edward Vul explain that people come off as more attractive when in groups than alone because of the “cheerleader effect.” In a five-experiment study, Walker and Vul asked a group of subjects to rate the attractiveness of people in a variety of photographs — some of the photographs pictured people alone, some in groups, and others in collaged photos of people alone made to look like a group.
Kostek, a former Patriots cheerleader, posted a boomerang video of the shirtless Gronk while she held his shirt in her hands, writing: 'It gets hot on the dance floor.'Gronkowski also got a birthday cake from some of his boys, and was filmed as he blew out the candles after the festivities.
Selective attention to attractive people, the researchers argue, elevates the entire group — one hot friend skews the judgment of the entire crew.“Based on the average rule, one would expect the evaluation of a group’s physical attractiveness to be based on the average attractiveness of its members,” they write.
“In our studies, however, people judge the physical attractiveness of a group and we observe that they find the group more attractive than the average of its members.”This team also find what Fugere mentioned: Women, more than men, have the power to instigate selective attention.
But personality takes a backseat to attractiveness when judging how well a group date will go — especially for men and for people less physically attractive than other members of a group.
In other words, only one thing is necessary for a group date to succeed: Your friends need to be fine as hell.“For men, just being seen with one or more attractive women can make men appear more attractive,” Fugere tells .